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The Four Daisy Salt Shakers

*How I imagined the scene to be, as told to me.

 

Four daisy-shaped salt shakers stared at my mom: purple, red, blue, and yellow. “Sige na lang, atong butangan ug scotch tape” “We can just put tape over it” Nora said to my mom, in response to her question about the holes on top.

My mom had sent Nora to town to buy four small containers that would hold Mama’s ashes on her journey back home from the Philippines. One for each of us. To my mom's surprise and slight bewilderment, Nora had returned with salt shakers. To her, they were the right size, and would serve the purpose; the holes were a minor detail that could easily be remedied at home. 

And that was how my grandma ended up in four salt shakers. Well, part of her anyway. Did I get her arm, her toes, her lung maybe? Had ashes from the previous cremation somehow wound up in my vessel?

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I wondered this as I waited for my flight, entranced by Mama’s ashes and bones that filled this odd, cheery salt shaker. Visions of in-flight meals seasoned with her quirks and pruned body haunted me. I bet this was an ending Mama never could have predicted. A slight chuckle escaped me, as I gathered my bags and headed to my gate, the loud speakers yelling boarding groups into my ears.

Saturday 08.12.17
Posted by samantha hodgson
 

The Woman Behind the Wheel

You wouldn't know it from my Instagram feed, but I didn’t grow up climbing mountains or frolicking in flower-lined meadows. Instead of chubby marmots crossing my path, I got to marvel at bony, stray dogs in search of scraps they could call a meal. I grew up in a poor small city in a third-world country in Asia, where the smell of roadside barbecue was more a thing than the smell of fresh pine.

My grandmother used to let me tag along on her afternoon drives with my grandfather and their two favorite dogs—at the time they had 12 I believe— all five of us piled into her tiny white souped up Toyota Corolla. I didn’t realize back then that my timid, conservative grandmother was driving around in the equivalent of a track car. To me, it was just mama’s tiny white car that always smelled like a mixture of old spice, pomade, and old dogs.

I treasured those afternoon drives. We would drive down to the pier where commercial shipping barges would dock, just to be close to the water. To us it was a scenic, relaxing outing, as we plowed through rush hour traffic, smog, and sticky air. We would get out of the car once we reached the pier to take in the smell of polluted salt water peppered with garbage, as it lapped against the mossy cement pylons. Those were the warm, dusky summer evenings of my childhood that I will remember until I no longer can. 

 

I love you Mama. Thank you for being in my life for as long as you were able. It is too surreal to process that you are gone, and that I am no longer that seven year old. So let me stay here a while with you, as we stand along the chain-link fence, fingers entwined, and listen to the lapping water.

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Saturday 07.29.17
Posted by samantha hodgson